Thursday, July 21, 2011

A New #Dog - The Training Begins!


Whenever a new dog joins the pack there is a period of adjustment and training. That is a given. Some dogs, however, perhaps especially rescues, need a little more work than others.

Curly is just such a dog. We were looking for a tiny dog to round out our own little pack, and yesterday we got a 6# chihuahua mix that will one day be the perfect dog! He'd been a stray when he was picked up, so we have no idea about his history. He appears to be about 4 years old and is really adorable!

First day he was here, we learned that, in spite of what the shelter thought, he is not housebroken. Easy fix. We also learned that he is VERY possessive about food, water, and anything else he claims (such as a washcloth out of the laundry), and doesn't bother with a warning nip or growl but goes straight for the bite.

This is not such an easy fix, but it IS fixable in most cases. (I have worked with only one dog where it wasn't - a purebred of a breed that is known to have the occasional wiring issue in their brains.)

When we got Doodlebug, a 5YO minpin, he had the same problem the first day. I tried to pick up a toy that he had, so that I could throw it for him again, and he nailed me. At that time I had the coolest cat in the world, Bruce. Before Doobie had even retreated from the snap, that cat was on him like white on rice, chewing the heck out of whatever he could reach, and within a few seconds, so was my yorkie/pom girl, Bing. Poor Doobie took off through the nearest doorway, which happened to be into our bedroom, and our doberman Chandler immediately took up his station at the door, and wouldn't let Doobie back out. All of this took place in the span of about a minute...and Doobie never, ever snapped at us again when we tried to take something from him.

I still have my elderly Bing girl, but she's a bit spacey these days. Bruce and Chandler are gone (as is Doobie)...so Pete and I are on our own with this one. So here is the plan, which is the same plan I use with any new dog I've ever had - and there have been quite a few - or worked with for others. Even when they don't have issues, they learn their way around, and their place in the pack fairly quickly. And when there are behavior issues, they are immediately corrected, or even prevented, this way.

Thankfully Curly is already crate-trained; that's half the battle! Because that is where he will sleep, eat, and go whenever he isn't with us. And the rest of the time, he will be with one of us - attached by a leash. Whatever we do, he will do too. If he's in the way, he will be learning to sit/stay or down/stay. When we are eating he will be learning not to beg and cry and bark at us (as he does now) - he will be learning that he isn't in charge of what and when he eats, we are.

As training progresses, he will learn to earn food treats, and learn never to take food. He will eat only when given permission, and only after the people eat. The same with toys. He will be wearing his leash whenever he isn't in the crate, which will give us a certain amount of control until he has mastered the first lessons in willingly ceding control to humans - all humans. (For example, we won't have to fear being bitten for picking up his food dish, because we will be able to hold him away from our hands.)

Tiny dogs are often allowed to become monsters because, IMHO, many of the people who get them want little "babies" to spoil. And it is considered cute when they are naughty because they are so tiny and adorable. I'm thinking this is what may have been the case with Curly, and then he was disposed of when he became the monster that his former owners had trained him to be. Just a guess on my part :) but an educated one...

So no spoiling for little Curly. What he wants, he will be earning, and we will be the source of all good things to him...on our terms. Once he falls into step with the rest of us - and I'm SURE he will, he already is showing signs of wanting to please - he will be a very special and lovely little dog to be around :). It will be worth all of the work now because we plan to love on this guy for a lot of years!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Reading Books

I used to read constantly, several novels a week. I suppose the time I now use on the internet would have been spent reading a book several years ago. I always read light stuff, romances, some light mysteries that had humor, and fun light-hearted humorous books. It was my escape, as the internet is now.

Then I developed a cataract which made reading difficult. Got it fixed 6-7 years ago, but was busy building my business, and had a TV in the bedroom so stopped reading at night. Meanwhile another cataract was forming, and it progressed to the point of blinding me totally in left eye...but meanwhile I had a stroke that still causes chaos (best word to describe it) in my thinking, has affected my concentration, etc. Less than a year ago I had surgery to remove my cataract, and was looking forward to reading again. In fact I have a few books that I've wanted to read and have started them but couldn't keep up with them even though they were all light reading. So I gave up.

Then this spring I got my DroidX. And have both the Kindle and Nook apps on it. And found lots of free books. And downloaded a few.

A few days ago I started one of them. In fact, I went to bed early just so I could. And at 3:07 in the morning, I finished it. I loved reading it! It is the first book that I've read all the way through in YEARS, and I really really loved it! (If you're curious, it was Making Waves by Lorna Seilstad.)

Most of my reading has been done on the computer (a habit I formed when I needed to be able to adjust the font size to HUGE!), mostly the Bible but also online articles...no fiction though, no light reading breaks of easy mindless drivel that I used to enjoy. Is that why it was so much easier to read it on my Droid? I know for a fact that holding the Droid is easier when laying in bed than even the lightest paperback...

The problem? Not being able to put it down. I can't read into the morning hours every night, for sure. I'm now reading the Bible on my Droid at night, which isn't light reading, but involves looking things up and praying, so it isn't strictly reading as in a novel.

So I'm excited to be able to read again. Just have to work out the sleep thing. I could read while I'm working (answering calls and scheduling appointments for The Bug Man 9-5, M-F, April-Oct.) I suppose, since I can't really get involved in projects with the frequent interruptions - I do simpler things around the house during work hours but do spend a lot of time, when the phone is busy, sitting at the computer. I might as well be reading.

Anyway, I'm really happy that I read a book, just for fun. And, whenever it might be, I'm looking forward to reading another one!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Rob Bell/Mars Hill Church

I had heard of Universalism and have read several articles about it in the past but this is the first I've heard of the "Emerging Church" - although a church that I attended in the past may fit that description...



I'm not sure why there is a need to sugar coat, or omit parts of, God's Word. Yes, the convicting by God of our sin is uncomfortable, even painful. And the feeling of urgency to change that He brings about within us is not pleasant - if it were then why would we bother?



No, the need for Christ isn't a sitcom, or the result of performance by a rock band, or enjoying a feel-good, everybody-goes-to-heaven sermon. The awareness of our need for Christ is most often a traumatic spiritual awakening that shakes us to the core, wakes us from our sin-induced slumber, and then as we repent, changes us with an heart-shattering, completely enveloping love and awareness of the Creator Himself within and through and surrounding us...leading to change from the very heart of who we are, to how we see life, our goals and priorities, how we live, and mostly Who we now serve.



A conversion from sinner to follower can happen anywhere. But it is the result of working of the Gospel of Jesus Christ within our very spirits, changing our hearts from the inside out, and leaving us with an awareness and connection through the Holy Spirit within us...not just an emotional high that leaves us within a few days (or even hours!).



Do not be deceived.


Monday, July 11, 2011

My New All-Time Favorite Site for Saving $!!! I actually understand her site, for one thing... :)


Real-Life Easter Eggs - Save $, Get Things Done, etc. (but I DO NOT condone #5, involving lying)


As an animal lover, today's Lazaroo was especially significant to me...

Amplify’d from lazaroo.com

Lazaroo – Monday, July 11, 2011




Jul 11, 2011
I Lazaroo.



 



Pray the words of this Lazaroo aloud, with total transparency:



“If someone’s offering is a fellowship offering, and he offers an animal from the herd, whether male or female, he is to present before the LORD an animal without defect. He is to lay his hand on the head of his offering and slaughter it at the entrance to the Tent of Meeting. Then Aaron’s sons the priests shall sprinkle the blood against the altar on all sides.”

(Leviticus 3:1-2)


I’m struggling with this, Jesus.


The very idea of taking an innocent animal –

one of my favorites –


marching it to Your holy place

laying my hand on its head one last time


and slaughtering it?!!!


then standing there…watching in horror…

while the priests sprinkle its blood against Your altar?!!!


No wonder these kinds of sacrifices were detestable to the Egyptians, Father.


I’ve got to admit it: They’re detestable to me.


as detestable as my sin must be to You.


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Exodus 8:25-27; Leviticus 18:22-30; Deuteronomy 7:25-27; Deuteronomy 27:1-7; 1 Kings 11:5-11; Ezekiel 36:31-32; Luke 16:14-15; Titus 1:14-16; 1 Peter 4:1-6

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